Thoughts & Confessions of a Daddy's Girl

Thoughts & Confessions of a Daddy's Girl

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

Warming Up

I am the development director of Wings of Refuge (WOR) http://www.wingsofrefuge.net/ . I recently finished speaking engagements for the year.  Doors opened from amazing people who are willing to look at hard facts.
Sobering statistics.
Darkness.
People unwilling to let it remain just that; numbers, facts, statistics. 
People who were willing to, one by one, believe that they in fact can do something to shine light on the darkness of 27,000,000 slaves in our world today.
Over 25 times this year, without asking a soul, Iowa has invited the message of heartbreak to the issue of sex trafficking into their community, church, circle of influence, organization to over 1,500 people.  But it didn't end there with a message of heartbreak.
The message was…
Overwhelming. 
It scared some of you. 
It burdened you. 
It angered you. 
But you didn't let it end there.
The uncomfortable state lead to a burning motivation in so many. 
Which produced action. 
Caused light to shine.
It lead to so much more…
296 days of offering exploitation to be ended for one more girl
408 safe nights for participants at WOR
10 trained volunteers rolling up their sleeves to get in the messy beauty of suffering
7 staff to aid in consistent restorative and sharing in suffering efforts
 12 monthly donors
1,166 followers on social media
262 people committed to pray as they receive our monthly prayer letter
6 networked professionals that provide specialized services for participants
3 moms who over the course of one month empowered their community to make a home beautiful and designed beauty for the ashes in a tangible way
1 family who purchased a home and rented it back to our organization at a reduced rate
221+ one time financial donors
2 precious and beautiful young women gaining their diploma
1 woman completing her first semester of college
And because of this other organizations from around the country called and asked us…
”What is your marketing plan?”
“What are you doing to gain so much support ?”
Our marketing plan?…
Love.
And Following.
 The one who Loved first.
I’m sorry American culture myself included; I cannot attach the strategic plan that was the first step to action. 
But looking back the plan was there. 
I can only speak for myself and I would love for anyone to comment on what propelled them to take action, be involved whether with a few dollars or their whole live because it all matters greatly, none more than others…
The plan began with a call…
To know my Maker
To know His power
To share in His suffering; the things he had on his mind as he willingly hung on the cross
And that is what I did, what so many did.
Philippians 3:10,11 says it best…” I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the sharing of his sufferings by becoming like him in his death,  if somehow I may attain the resurrection from the dead.

There has to be a walking in to the suffering. 

First our own. 
Through the redemptive power of the cross coming in with unmatchable grace to overcome the death in us. Then an invitation to share in the suffering…

To become friends with God.

Some translations use this phrase in Philippians 3:10; the fellowship of sharing in his suffering.  Fellowship can be defined as : friendly association, especially with people who share one's interests, companionship, mutual support, pursuing a shared interest or aim, club, alliance, a brotherhood, a union, a comradeship.

What an honor to know that we can be in a union, a brother/sisterhood, an alliance with the God of the universe to share in suffering. 

Does that mean we all sit around crying and feeling sorry for bad things with God.

Yes.

For a time.  We need to have our hearts broken.  Our skin needs to become thinned until we can feel the suffering with Him.  But we do not remain there. Where it can so often feel like death.  The humanity and evil of the world should sink in so deeply that death would be inviting and that is when we experience it.

Resurrection. 

From the dead.  The light over takes the darkness. The tides turn as the sons and daughters of the Most High King join the alliance of God to share in suffering and instead of the darkness being feared we in fact, with the resurrection in us, become the ones that are to be feared. We are the ones who are now dangerous to the darkness because we have overcome the fear of suffering, of sharing suffering.  We have walked out of complacency, comfort, and the mediocrity religion offers. We have walked into kingdom agenda that offends evil, makes demons tremble, and overtakes darkness.  Sure our humanity will often want to run back into the safety net of the control of the comfortable life we once lived but then we see it. 

The Glory of the Lord. 

New Life. 

Resurrection.  

Even if only a glimmer.  In a question of what if I could overcome?  In a smile. In a head lifting off a pillow yet another day.  In a sacred time of affirming a tattered spirit.  In a weary warrior unwilling to give up on love and overcoming when it seems to be unwanted. In laugh out loud, let it go, moments.  In yet a brave second to almost cry a tear.

This cycle of suffering- turned love action- turned resurrection propels the body of Christ into motion, into family, into an actual believing to the outside world that God truly is love.  It’s the only way.  Not just with ending sex trafficking, but with every evil in our culture today.  We can remain the ones trembling in the corner frozen due to the immense beast of evil around us.  We can be the hypocritical Pharisee who’s attitude comes across as judgment due to our fear of the darkness.

Or we can
Acknowledge. 
Expose.
The darkness for what it is and then…

 Link arms, hearts and hands to act. 

In our own lives…
Who do you need to forgive?
Who do you need to humble yourself with?
Where do you need to be still?
Who do you need to get messy; suffering in transparency with today?
Where do you not trust God, have you told him?
What passion burns most deeply in your soul and how are acting on the burning?

In our marriages…
Where are you uncommitted?
Where are you self- protecting?
Where are you lusting elsewhere?
How can you serve in love without expectation?
What new life will produce true intimacy because of these hard conversations?


In our parenting…
What is the biggest issue in your child’s heart?
How can you suffer with them?
Share your own suffering story with them?
What new life will sprout up?

In our neighborhoods…
Where is the widow?
The orphan?
Where is the need?
Where are hands needed?

In our church…
Can you talk together, why are we here?
Does our worship move the heart of God or are we here to feel good, look good, and because it’s what we have always done?
Is the truth of the gospel getting out or is it just one feel good message after another to gain attendance numbers?
Are you wrestling with one another in deep community or planning the calendar with only fluffy fellowship?
If Christ returned right now would your church be His bride ready or in a frenzy?
Corporately have you come together to allow God to break your heart’s to suffering?
If so what fruit has come out of it for His Glory?
Do you authentically love one another?

In our world…
Ending poverty?
The lost dignity for human life?
Loss of honor for authority?
The death of sex being sacred?
The objectification of women?
The lack of respect for men?
How can suffering in this lead to new life?
What revival and new life could come from walking into the suffering in these areas?

Maybe you are saying sure but I am only one.  For just one minute let’s turn the table and say you are the other one.  The one living in slavery. In poverty. Unwanted.  Unknown.  Unnamed.  What would you want you to do? 

I don’t know how God will move and stir your heart.  I don’t know what your gifting passions and abilities are.  I don’t know the state of your calendar or your bank account or your health or the thoughts that go through your mind.  But you do, and it’s in there.  That one thing that you are called to do. 
Do it.

Sure it might seem crazy, unattainable, and a faraway dream but so did a restoration home for survivors of sex trafficking to me a little over a year ago. The only thing I did was say Yes to suffering.  Say no to being ok with 27,000,000 slaves in the world, God did the rest…

You don’t have to do it all.
 Just do your part.
Do something
And the something from all of us can lead to ending slavery for one more girl until there are no more…

We are just warming up, it has been a whirlwind of God producing fruit year, but we are just beginning to see how light can overcome.

This is exciting!

How are you in?

Think about your part as you watch this video produced by Love146...